Know Thyself; through your deal breakers
What do YOU consider ‘compatible’ with YOU?
What if we really thought about, really knew those characteristics we honestly judge as important for potential partners to exude? Not just romantically, but in potential friends, co-workers, bosses, representatives…anyone whom could influence our everyday lives. What would you really want to know, up front, out of the gate, no holds barred? What would you love to know that they didn’t know you knew?
I find the following important to know:
- how many real friends you have from childhood
- amount of fragrance you bring with you
- the last thing you read
- # of times you’ve voluntarily vacationed at a theme park with costumed animals as an adult
- having any non-judgmental feelings about reality TV
- how you drive
- thoughts on evolution
- why you chose/are choosing your profession
- how you throw a ball
- any perceived ick-like feelings in your presence
- the level of hilarity you find within Monty Python
- feelings per country music
- affinity for stinky cheese
- best present you ever gave someone
- you tend to prefer the remake/reboot/sequel to the original
What would YOUR compatibility determinants/deal breakers/would-love-to-know-without-you-knowing-I-know list be for a stranger? How would anyone whom currently influences your everyday life measure up against your list?
Last Updated on 09/06/2025 by Death of Hypatia Inc.

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