Know Thyself, what are YOU waiting for?
Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.
-Barack Obama
Know Thyself through being OBSESSED
The White Stripes were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame today.
Jack White ended his acceptance speech this way:
“We don’t know why these things connect with people. But when they do, it’s the most beautiful thing you can have as an artist or a musician when people are responding and sharing with you. And so, to the young artists, I want to say, get your hands dirty and drop the screens and get out in your garage, or your little room, and get obsessed.
Get obsessed with something. You know, get passionate. We all want to share in what you might create.”
What have YOU been obsessed with throughout you life? Are YOU still obsessed?
What are YOU going to be Obsessed with this year?… more “Know Thyself #114”
Know Thyself through your VOCABULARY:
I would like to use a new word in 2026 that describes when something is the pinnacle of itself, the ultimate.
I wish to supplant the outdated, overused, and subjective superlatives. Awesome is dependent on what is being described. Awesome dinner is positive. Awesome typhoon is not. Killer and Fire can also be negatives depending on the situation.
I personally, as described in an earlier post, utilize the phrase; ‘None more black‘ in just such a situation. But I realize that for non-fans of the movie This is Spinal Tap, this reference could come off as racist.
Therefore I nominate Da Vinci as a superlative. Who contributed more to the human race? Who could be considered more accomplished, curious, and brilliant? If you call something Da Vinci, you are giving a nod to history, it has a level of sophistication, it’s Italian with two capital letters, and let’s face it, it’s fun to say.
You would never describe something bad as Da Vinci. This dinner was Da Vinci works. The typhoon was Da Vinci, does not work. To avoid bastardization you can personalize it: ‘I find that, Da Vinci‘, ‘That’s Da Vinci to me’, or ‘In my experiences, nothing has been more Da Vinci‘.… more “Know Thyself #113”
Know Thyself through A Christmas Carol
You probably have heard versions of some of Dickens’ great words in A Christmas Carol, probably a bit of ‘(Christmas) has done me good, and will do me good’, a ‘Golden Idol has displaced me’ and ‘Scrooge was better than his word…knew how to keep Christmas well…bless us everyone.’ But as with Dickens works, I love best the bits you probably never heard. Therefore, in homage to the Man who invented Christmas on Christmas Eve, see what you think of the exact quotes from A Christmas Carol exactly as Dickens wrote them:
-When Scrooge’s Nephew Fred when he comes to visit him in his office on Christmas Eve:
‘There are many things for which I might have derived good, by which I have not profited, I dare say.” returned the nephew: “Christmas among the rest. But I am sure I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round….as a good time: a kind, forgiving, charitable, pleasant time, the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow-passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys. And therefore uncle, though it has never put a scrap of gold or silver in my pocket, I believe that it has done me good, and will do me good:”
-When Belle breaks up with Scrooge, I never realized she was dressed in mourning as her parents just died leaving her penniless:
“It matters little,” she said, softly. “To you, very little. Another idol has displaced me; and if it can cheer and comfort you in time to come, as I would have tried to do, I have no just cause to grieve.”
“What idol has displaced you?” he rejoined.
“A golden one.”
“This is the even-handed dealing of the world!” he said. “There is nothing on which it is so hard as poverty; and there is nothing it professed to condemn iwht such severity as the pursuit of wealth!”
“You fear the world too much,” she answered, gently. “All your other hopes have merged into the hope of being beyond the chance of its sordid reproach. I have seen your nobler aspirations fall off one by one, until the master-passion, Gain, engrossed you. Have I not?”
-The Ending:
‘Scrooge was better than his word. He did it all, and infinitely more; and to Tiny Tim, who did NOT die, he was a second father. He became as good a friend, as good a master, and as good a man, as the good old city knew, or any other good old city, town, or borough, in the good old world. Some people laughed to see the alteration in him, but he let them laugh, and little heeded them; for he was wise enough to know that nothing ever happened on this globe, FOR GOOD, at which some people did not have their fill of laugher in the outset; and knowing that such as these would be blind anyway, he thought it quite as well that they should wrinkle up there eyes in grins, as have the malady in less attractive forms. His own heart laughed; and that was quite enough for him.
He had no further intercourse with Spirits, but lived upon the Total Abstinence Principle, ever afterwards; and it was always said of him, that he knew how to keep Christmas well, if any man alive possessed the knowledge. May that be truly said of us, and all of us! And so, as tiny Tim observed, God Bless Us, Every One!’
The End
-Charles Dickens
Happy Holidays.
Know Thyself through your favorite book
My favorite book is A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens. I love what this book stood for, the intent and purpose behind its inception, the method and process of its production, its indelible morale, and the beauty of the words.
When describing Scrooge’s public persona, Dickens writes:
“Nobody ever stopped him in the street to say, with gladsome looks, ‘My dear Scrooge, how are you? When will you come to see me?’ No beggars implored him to bestow a trifle, no children asked him what it was o’clock, no man or woman ever once in all his life inquired the way to such and such a place, of Scrooge….
But what did Scrooge care? it was the very thing he liked. to edge his way along the crowded paths of life, warning all human sympathy to keep its distance…”
When describing Scrooge’s house, Dickens writes:
“They were a gloomy suite of rooms, in a lowering pile of building up a yard, where it had so little business to be, that one could scarcely help fancying it must have run there when it twas a young house, playing at hide-and-seek with other houses, and have forgotten the way out again.”
I read the book at least once around this time of year and I believe I have watched all movie versions.
Like all cherished books, I like and dislike certain aspects of many of the movie versions. There are reasons why they are cherished, retain those and you are fine.
I do not require the plot to stay faithful to Dickens’, just as long as the message remains true, in fact, Scrooged with Bill Murray is one of my favorites. All the essence is kept yet almost all the details were altered, consistently, and therefore, okay by me.
What I do not like is when a version is set in the 1840’s and while attempting to remain ‘true’ to the book, disregard important points or dialogue, and worst of all, changes or adds seemingly unnecessary details. Now I understand a movie can’t be verbatim and therefore there are aspects I believe the storyline can afford to strikethrough, for example:
But what I viscerally do not like are when details of this perfect story are changed for no apparent reason. If it ain’t broke…. examples of frequent offenders:
Honor the Dickens. When a story has remained relevant for over 180 years, never going out of print, then, in my opinion, the new story teller should change all of it or none of it. I don’t care who you are, you are no Dickens. He didn’t miss anything so don’t add.… more “Know Thyself #111”
Know Thyself through Rob Reiner and the joy he gave us.
His movies truly added to my life. There are phrases that have become a part of my vocabulary because of this amazing actor, director, and human.
In This is Spinal Tap, Nigel Tufnel, the simple guitarist of the band is considering a sample of their new, all black album cover (which is supposed to be as classy as the Beatles White Album but completely misses the mark). After contemplating and also missing the irony, he says, ‘It’s like, how much more black could this be? and the answer is none. None more black.’ None more black comes into play in my real life whenever confronted with something that couldn’t be more like itself than it already is.
In Princess Bride, Inigo Montoya is continuously saying ‘I don’t think that word means what you think it means.‘ This is useful in today’s world when words are bastardized like ‘Literal’.
and in When Harry Met Sally, in a museum Harry says; ‘I think hieroglyphics were a comic strip about a character named Spyinxy‘, well that’s just fun.
Please Rest in Peace Mr. and Mrs. Reiner. I’m so sorry someone who brought us so much joy experienced last moments of fear.
That doesn’t seem fair.… more “Know Thyself #110”
Know Thyself through Quotes, YOURS:
After reflecting on the many dystopian novels I have written, I’ve noticed a common thread. Evil takes away those things that make the population at large think. Individual thought is the most dangerous idea to the status quo, its downfall normally comes when likeminded individuals think about, and act upon a common goal. This is what needs to be destroyed by evil forces in all dystopian novels and movies.
The first thing removed are books. These are the most corrupting of vices among humans. Next is art and anything construed as beautiful and thought-provoking. Next crush all individuality, distract, and above all else, do not allow them to learn.
I like quotes because quotes represent that someone thought about a subject and summed up their thoughts in a quick muse bouche bite.
Good are those who are interested in expanding horizons,
Evil are those who wish to control them.
-me
Know Thyself through WHAT YOU WOULD ‘TAKE’ WITH YOU
What if you COULD take one thing with you?
Just one thing.
What would YOURs be?
I bet it wouldn’t be money, or making it, or spending it.
Mine would be the memories of moments I paid attention to. If this wish were to come true, I would pay even more attention to my real life and build up the bank.
Maybe I will regardless.… more “Know Thyself #108”
Know Thyself through LYRICS:
“On The Turning Away” is a song from Pink Floyd’s 1987 album, A Momentary Lapse of Reason, and was written by David Gilmore and Anthony Moore
On the turning away
From the pale and downtrodden
And the words they say
Which we won’t understand
“Don’t accept that what’s happening
Is just a case of others’ suffering
Or you’ll find that you’re joining in
The turning away”It’s a sin that somehow
Light is changing to shadow
And casting its shroud
Over all we have known
Unaware how the ranks have grown
Driven on by a heart of stone
We could find that we’re all alone
In the dream of the proudOn the wings of the night
As the daytime is stirring
Where the speechless unite
In a silent accord
Using words you will find are strange
Mesmerized as they light the flame
Feel the new wind of change
On the wings of the nightNo more turning away
From the weak and the weary
No more turning away
From the coldness inside
Just a world that we all must share
It’s not enough just to stand and stare
Is it only a dream that there’ll be
No more turning away?
Know Thyself through LYRICS:
“She’s So High” by Talmage Bachman:
She’s blood, flesh and bone
No tucks or silicone
She’s touch, smell, sight, taste, and sound
But somehow I can’t believe
That anything should happen
I know where I belong
And nothing’s going to happen, yeah’Cause she’s so high
High above me
She’s so lovely
She’s so high
Like Cleopatra, Joan of Arc, or Aphrodite
Da da-da da da
She’s so high
High above meFirst class and fancy free
She’s high society
She’s got the best of everything
What could a guy like me
Ever really offer?
She’s perfect as she can be
Why should I even bother?‘Cause she’s so high
High above me
She’s so lovely
She’s so high
Like Cleopatra, Joan of Arc, or Aphrodite
Da da-da da da
She’s so high
High above meShe calls to speak to me
I freeze immediately
‘Cause what she says sounds so unreal
‘Cause somehow I can’t believe
That anything should happen
I know where I belong
And nothing’s going to happen, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah‘Cause she’s so high
High above me
She’s so lovely
She’s so high
Like Cleopatra, Joan of Arc, or Aphrodite, oh yeah
She’s so high
High above me
Know Thyself through YOUR Holidays:
What were you taught about Thanksgiving? Does it involve grateful pilgrims in stiff hats offering cornucopias of food to kind Native Americans? Apparently this common US version has been derived from ancient harvest festivals, English traditions dating from the Protestant Reformation, and softened versions of American history.
But apart from the history you learned, what does YOUR Thanksgivings mean to YOU. a.k.a. if you had a foreign exchange student, say an 8th grader, and had to explain what the holiday has meant and still means to YOUR family, limiting your explanation only to what happens in the home you celebrate it in, what would YOU say?… more “Know Thyself #105”
Know Thyself through how you spend your TIME:
Hummingbirds have an average life expectancy of 3-5 years.
Humans have an average life expectancy of 78-80 years, or roughly 20 times longer than that of a hummingbird. It is almost like one hour of our lives equals an entire day for a hummingbird.
Look at your phone and see how many hours you spent on it yesterday. Imagine if you saw a hummingbird spend approximately that # of days staring at something, not doing anything else, just staring at the same shiny thing.
If it survived long enough for you to notice this, you would probably find it odd, no?… more “Know Thyself #104”
Know Thyself:
My newest favorite quote is:
‘The more you know,
the more you see.’– Aldous Huxley
I believe I had heard about it before now but it wasn’t until recently that I started to think about why I like this quote. Obvious reasons were:
But after nerdily looking into the quote, I liked it more when, according to topessaywriting.org on May 10, 2023*:
‘Huxley came up with the remark after losing his vision and embarking on a journey to understand how humans see.’
So add this to the list:
I read on…..:
‘The remark implies that in order for individuals to see properly, they must also thinkclearly. According to Huxley’s theory, sight and cognition cannot be separated. Through combing the three aspects: sensation, selection, and perception, one is able to make sense of objects within (‘objects within is maybe a mistype of ‘world around us’ maybe?), thus making Huxley’s formula simple but lucid. The statement shows that once you have an understanding of different things you get to realize deeper aspects of those things, thus: beyond what the human eye can see, since you will have a different perspective due to your high(tend?) knowledge level…. it shows knowledge has great power to help people in understanding things which may at times appear complicated or hidden.*
So this amazing thinker took a situation that would have broken most people’s spirit and made lemonade?! He discovered that NOTICING more increases one’s capacity for WISDOM.
So in essence they are saying that Noticing allows you to know, which in turn allows you to see, which in turn allows you to notice, which allows you to know, which allows you to see, which allows you to notice…..
Damn.
*Topessay.org references: Lester, P.M. (2014), Visual Communication: Images with messages, Boston: Wadsworth/Cengage Learning Aldous Huxley
… more “Know Thyself #103”
Know Thyself through LYRICS:
‘What I Am’ written by Edie Brickell and Kenny Withrow and recorded by Edie Brickell & New Bohemians:
I’m not aware of too many things, I know what I know, if you know what I mean
Philosophy is the talk on a cereal box
Religion is the smile on a dog
I’m not aware of too many things, I know what I know, if you know what I mean, d-doo yeahShove me in the shallow waters, before I get too deep
What I am is what I am, Are you what you are or what?
What I am is what I am, Are you what you are, or?Oh, I’m not aware of too many things, I know what I know, if you know what I mean
Philosophy is a walk on the slippery rocks
Religion is a light in the fog
I’m not aware of too many things, I know what I know, if you know what I mean, d-doo yeahShove me in the shallow water before I get too deep
What I am is what I am, Are you what you are or what?
What I am is what I am, Are you what you are or what?
(repeats)Don’t let me get too deep
(repeats)Shove me in the shallow water before I get too deep
(repeats)
What do YOU think the song is about?
What do you think they meant by: ‘Philosophy is a walk on slippery rocks’ or that ‘Religion is the smile on a dog’? Do YOU agree?
Are YOU what YOU are, or what?
Know Thyself
I’ve spent a considerable amount of time around children recently and I’ve found that my face hurts. I’ve spent an increased amount of time smiling, making faces, and over over-exaggerated expressions. I’ve also found myself laughing more often. I’ve thought about this because my facial muscles, specifically in the cheek area, are sore. It pleases me to think that around non-adults I find myself happier; yet at the same time I’m saddened that apparently my smiling muscles are out of shape.
Try this: Close your eyes and scan your body for sore muscles. Do your forearms hurt from making something? Quads sore from swatting? Hands hurt from writing?
Or, shoulders hurt from stressing?… more “Know Thyself #101”